Boring can be good. Functional and somewhat fashion conscious is how most people tend to roll. The purpose behind mine have always been to draw attention and provide amusement for onlookers. While this bombards me with embarrassment and shame, it also feeds the submissive feelings that I hold so dear.
Take care.
Another note that a couple of Domme friends wish to remind me of is that actual women don’t dress like this. When they remind me of that it makes me sink into space.
I know that bobble hats are bigger in the UK. Here winter tends to bring out blacks, browns, grays, navy blues, etc. I would be surprised if you knew women who mixed hats with earmuffs, but I am guessing you were more referencing color schemes 🙂
Oh no I wasn’t I myself have been known to do it – I hate cold ears – my ears actually sting and burn when they get cold it’s soooo painful ….I often have ear muffs and a bobble hat on! Oh and I made my own hat once …. I’ll email u a pic!
That sting and burn is frostbite. Ears get poor circulation but have a lot of nerve endings.
A lot of people here tend to have limits on how bundled up they are willing to be if they don’t like how it looks. It is rather interesting considering how cold it gets here.
I learned that years ago when I resisted the order. She said I didn’t have to wear them… and then spanked me and woudln’t stop until I begged to wear them. 🙂
It was effective. She repeated it another time when I hesitated. She wanted the resistance impulse gone. In both scenarios she kept going well into the begging (and crying) until I firmly convinced her that I wanted it. It was very humiliating.
The contrast is much better my friend. . And by that I mean absurd 😝
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Blush.
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My own pompom hat arrived today – but very boring in comparison to yours FC!
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Boring can be good. Functional and somewhat fashion conscious is how most people tend to roll. The purpose behind mine have always been to draw attention and provide amusement for onlookers. While this bombards me with embarrassment and shame, it also feeds the submissive feelings that I hold so dear.
Take care.
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Another note that a couple of Domme friends wish to remind me of is that actual women don’t dress like this. When they remind me of that it makes me sink into space.
Take care.
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Well I know women who do lol 😂
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I know that bobble hats are bigger in the UK. Here winter tends to bring out blacks, browns, grays, navy blues, etc. I would be surprised if you knew women who mixed hats with earmuffs, but I am guessing you were more referencing color schemes 🙂
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Oh no I wasn’t I myself have been known to do it – I hate cold ears – my ears actually sting and burn when they get cold it’s soooo painful ….I often have ear muffs and a bobble hat on! Oh and I made my own hat once …. I’ll email u a pic!
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That sting and burn is frostbite. Ears get poor circulation but have a lot of nerve endings.
A lot of people here tend to have limits on how bundled up they are willing to be if they don’t like how it looks. It is rather interesting considering how cold it gets here.
Take care.
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The pain always seems to be inside my ears .. I’ve always picked warmth over appearance lol
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That is wise.
I would note the times I am forced to wear those things it is indoors… and cold it not a factor 🙂
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Then u must do as you’re told FC and wear them 😊
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I learned that years ago when I resisted the order. She said I didn’t have to wear them… and then spanked me and woudln’t stop until I begged to wear them. 🙂
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😳
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It was effective. She repeated it another time when I hesitated. She wanted the resistance impulse gone. In both scenarios she kept going well into the begging (and crying) until I firmly convinced her that I wanted it. It was very humiliating.
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☹️ sounds awful … but I guess you liked it …
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I’m not sure if “liked” was the right word. Appreciated how submissive it made me feel? Sure.
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Yes poor choice of words on my part.. 😏
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Blush.
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